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Clothing Ourselves With Good Virtues
The Monthly Devotional
by Alisa Walsh

Colossians 3:12-14 “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

Drama in high school is notoriously present, and, as some would say, unavoidable. Girls think too much of one situation, (did you see the way she looked at me? She hates me...I know it) while guys tend to not think enough of one action or another (What? I didn’t mean to hold her hand, it just happened!).

Yes, I have had my fair share of drama over the years, but am now fortunate enough to posses some vital skills that enable me to steer clear. For one, when gossip reaches my end of the school, I merely reply, “That’s cool,” maybe offer a little advice, then end it right there. I don’t run off to the next person I see and tell them what Sally did on Friday night or what Marge said about Gladys. We all know that here at Valley Christian, gossip spreads like wildfire. Not only does this effect the persons involved, but can also result in the administration having to take action, which never ends up with happy people. If we truly want to stop all this nonsense, then take Colossians 3:12 to heart; clothe yourselves with compassion and kindness. Be aware that just because you may not be everyone’s best friend but it does not mean that you can’t treat everyone with the kindness and respect they deserve.

I know that this advice is easier said than done, however. There are instances where things tend to get a little out of hand and friendships get broken. Instead of dwelling on what should have happened (or what didn’t happen that should have), remember that in the long run, it is not what’s going on that is remembered, but the people who you share your happiest moments with that make the memories great. The Lord says to forgive. Forgive not only for His sake, but for yours as well. Just think of all the fun times you could be missing out on if Bob or Lucy were no longer in your life. So, in conclusion, make a difference in school. Stay out of drama and forgive those who need forgiveness, whether they choose to accept it or not is up to them.